"There is never a reason for you to be without something that you desire. Nor is there ever a reason for you to experience something that you do not desire--for you hold absolute control of your experience."
This can be difficult to grasp when our experiences are not what we desire. But, we must always, always remember, in those times, to look within at our thoughts, and the feelings fueling those thoughts. It still amazes me every time how true it is. We are the creators of our life experiences...and the good news is, we have the power to change and fine tune our lives.. at any given moment...and that is a good thing!